What is business without fun, we are having a huge glamourous party at the hottest lounge in Atlanta tomorrow nite...everyone is welcomed but rememeber to RSVP! (wink)

Guess Who Biz-ack...

Oooooooooo, I haven't updated my blog is a few seasons and it's still sitting in cyberspace...just idle and patiently waiting on info to be placed on it!!! Well, I recently got married, moved in with my hubbie ( I know which is normal but I'm still adjusting to sharing), school just started for the fall semester, and I am a business owner (Yay Me!!!) I just love more than 3 paychecks per month! Well, I will be updating very soon...so stay tuned!

-Alicia aka Ally

The Birthday Diva is in the Building

Okay it's hard to blog be a fulltime mom, student, and work..plus make time for special man in my life! Wow.....it's hard!

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OlenaInStyle.com is an international fashion magazine from Atlanta, GA. In March 2008 we had readers in 40 countries of the world and would like to invite you to join us in a fabulous adventure of beauty, skin care, fashion, makeup and healthy lifestyle: http://www.olenainstyle.com/

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Cute site of the month -> http://www.naughtysecretaryclub.com/shop/

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Get a hobby!
Everybody needs some type of a hobby and fashion can be one of it or even the main one. When it comes to fashion, our imagination can run completely wild and we can create outfits that are original, sophisticated and that fit our style. Many girls like experimenting with clothes that they have. I am definitely one of them. Wouldn’t you like to experiment with clothes of somebody else who lives on the other side of the planet? It sounds incredible, I know, but it is definitely possible thanks to ClosetMix.com. Here is how to site works. You create your free account (which should not take you more than 30 seconds) after which you are given the freedom of uploading your own pictures and combining them with the pictures of other fashion lovers and their outfits. Everyone can Mix Candies, Kohls and Hollister clothes on ClosetMix.com and take advantage out of it. ClosetMix.com wants to give some fun to those who enjoy fashion and want to combine one of the world’s best outfits possible. If you want, check on the regular basis the best mixes made by the users of the website. I found some of the ideas there to be inspiring. Here is the picture that I would like to share with you:
Bubble Tube Topblack skirt with blue knitted detail at the bottomClick to mix this outfit with other clothes - even your clothes using www.ClosetMix.com.

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By Brennan Williams, BlackVoices.comOver the past 10 years, Mo'Nique has become one of the foremost funny-woman in Hollywood.But the plus-sized comedienne's recent revelation of teenage sex abuse is no laughing matter.In the October issue of 'Essence,' the Baltimore native reveals that she was sexually abused by her brother at the tender age of seven."I was molested by my older brother," she tells writer Audrey Edwards during one of her most candid interviews ever. "And even when I confronted him and told my parents, he said I was lying, and nothing was really done."'The Parkers' star said that her brother molested her four times over the course of four years, using certain tactics such as candy to lure her into the bathroom.Her parents, she said, were in disbelief, but she didn't hold them accountable "because me and my brother were both their children, and I just don't know the kind of position they felt they were in." However, the way her parents handled the situation left her bewildered. "My father was very upset, but it never got mentioned again," she added. "I'll never forget my mother saying, 'If it's true, it will surface again,' and I remember thinking, 'Why would I lie? Why is there even an if in this?' I was angry with them for so long, because I felt as if they should have seen what was happening." Mo'Nique's alleged sexual abuse came full circle when playing her latest role as an abusive parent in Lee Daniels'; forthcoming film, 'Push.' Based on the seminal 1996 novel of the same name by Sapphire, the story is a graphic account of a young black woman growing up in a cycle of incest and abuse."My brother was a monster to me," she commented. "When Lee [Daniels] would say 'Action,' I became my brother."Her brother, she said went on to serve 15 years in prison for sexually abusing another girl and never made amends for the abuse. "He still acts like he doesn't know what I'm talking about," she vented in the magazine, which hit newsstands today."So screw hurting your feelings. You need to get your feelings hurt, and you need to get some help."Mo'Nique, who serves as Guest Editor of the magazine, a special issue dedicated to plus-sized women, admitted to being nervous about telling her painful truth but felt it was her duty."It makes me nervous. It's like, Oh, God, what will it do to him when people read this? And then another part of me is like, Goddamn it, it's my obligation to let people know, and to tell women to watch their children."

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Beauty & Fashion Website of the month -> http://ambermag.com/

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Bernie Mac dies at 50!!! WOW!!!

It saddens me to bring you this news as I have just learned of this myself!


"Actor/comedian Bernie Mac passed away this morning from complications due to pneumonia in a Chicago area hospital," his publicist, Danica Smith, said in a statement from Los Angeles.
She said no other details were available and asked that his family's privacy be respected.
The comedian suffered from sarcoidosis, an inflammatory lung disease that produces tiny lumps of cells in the body's organs, but had said the condition went into remission in 2005. He recently was hospitalized and treated for pneumonia, which his publicist said was not related to the disease.

-from Yahoo

ANTM --- Coming in September!!!

Michelle Obama is covering this month's Ebony magazine. She looks FAB! It is so nice to see a Black women on the cover of a magazine without her g-string clad rear in the air. The issue is out August 12th. here are some quotes from the article .

Michelle on campaigning and the American people…

“It has been a blessing for us to have this opportunity to spend this year traveling the country,” she tells Ebony magazine. “We’ve been in almost every state in this nation—in people’s homes, in their kitchens, in their community centers, and just having the opportunity to be reminded of how decent the American people are and how our values are so closely linked, that gives me hope.”

Michelle on her style…

“I do think what you wear is a reflection of who you are. I love to look glamorous when there’s a wonderful, purposeful event that is appropriate. But when I’m in Iowa campaigning with the girls, I am in Gap shorts and a T-shirt.”

Michelle on being a mom…

“My first job in all honesty is going to continue to be mom-in-chief,” she says, “making sure that in this transition, which will be even more of a transition for the girls…that they are settled and that they know they will continue to be the center of our universe.”

I wanna Rock right now!!!!

Ready.....Let's go em'.....

I had my girls visit ATL this past weekend and we had a blast!

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I decided it's time to lose weight so I'm counting calories and I can't freakin believe ...the little skinny minnie is now in double digit clothes....

Weight Loss Tips

1) Replace bad carbs with good carbs when you can. By that I mean replace high glycemic foods (bad carbs) with their lower glycemic (good carbs) versions. For example, instead of eating white bread, eat 100% whole wheat bread. Instead of eating pasta, eat whole wheat pasta. Instead of eating white rice, eat brown rice.

2) Keep a workout log. It's hard to make progress in the gym when you don't remember what you did the previous time. Did I lift that much weight? Did I do that many reps? How many sets did I do again? Wait, which exercise am I supposed to do now? Was I on the treadmill for 20 minutes yesterday... or was it 30? A workout log will allow you to know the answers to these questions, and this will in turn allow you to make progress. And, in case you were wondering... progress leads to results.

3) EAT! Some people incorrectly and unhealthily starve themselves in an attempt to lose weight. Not only is this just plain bad, but in some cases it will have the opposite effect. Not giving your body enough food will put it into a protective state where it actually begins to STORE fat. Weight loss occurs when you take in less calories as a whole, either through diet, exercise or a combination of both. However, this reduction of calories should be very gradual and be in 250-500 calorie increments. Reducing calorie intake by some insanely high number is, to make a long story short, a very bad idea.

4) If what you are eating has a cartoon character of any kind on it, you probably shouldn't be eating it. Seriously though, junk food is a waste of calories. There are no weight loss tips that are going to change the fact that there is a certain amount of calories that you are going to eat each day, and none of it should be wasted on crap whose only positive is that "it tastes yummy." The food you eat should serve more positive purposes than just taste alone. If it doesn't, you probably shouldn't be eating it. That's actually a pretty good food rule right there. If you've read the food cravings article, you certainly know I'm a big fan of this weight loss tip.

5) Here's one you may know already since it's mentioned on the main weight loss page, but since there are only so few weight loss tips, and since I need to fill an entire list of them, I'll include it anyway. Instead of eating 3 big meals a day (breakfast, lunch, dinner) eat 5-6 smaller meals spread out over the course of the day, typically every 3 hours or so. Doing this not only helps speed up your metabolism, but it also helps keep you full. Eating more meals more often will make you less prone to becoming hungry in between meals and eating something you shouldn't be eating.

6) Take pictures. No, not of pretty flowers and your friends, but of you, wearing the least amount of clothes you're willing to wear. Before this one becomes a little too creepy to be on a list of weight loss tips, let me explain it's purpose. It's to help you track your progress. To help you see if what you are doing is working. To give you something to look back at and compare yourself to. You'd be very surprised to see how quickly a person forgets where they started at. You become so used to seeing yourself every day that you don't notice the changes to your body. Taking pictures (once a month is good) is your way of reminding yourself. This not only helps track your progress, but it will also serve as motivation.

7) Weight loss will happen when one specific thing happens... when you end up below your calorie maintenance level. This can happen as a result of either decreasing your calorie intake by adjusting your diet, or by working out enough to burn the calories needed to drop below the maintenance level. So then yes... it is technically possible to lose weight through diet alone. Is it ideal? Not really. For the same reason it is also possible to lose weight through exercise alone. Is it ideal? Not really. The ideal way to lose weight is through a combination of both diet and exercise. It is also better for all around health, too. So, while it is possible to lose weight through just one, for best results, put both to use.

8) Drink water, lots of water. A half a gallon a day, at least. I know, I know... this one is far from rocket science. But it is still true and still helpful, and I think that definitely qualifies it for addition on a list of weight loss tips.

9) STOP looking for the magical list of weight loss tips that's going to make losing weight easy or fast for you! IT DOESN'T EXIST! No matter what, you WILL have to put forth high amounts of effort and hard work. Yes, effort and hard work. Sorry to ruin your hopes and dreams, but weight loss isn't as simple as "taking the stairs instead of the elevator." There is no list with a tip on it that is going to change the fact that you're going to actually have to eat right and workout. Stop looking. There is no such thing.

10) And finally, here is my favorite of all weight loss tips. Go read the diets and diet plans page and the weight loss page of the site. Combined they will explain EXACTLY what you need to do in order to lose weight. Literally everything you need to know is there. Read every word. Don't skip a single sentence. When you're done and have read it all, if you STILL feel you need more weight loss tips... well then... tip #11 is for you.

Find out what your first name means ~ http://www.zelo.com/firstnames/

Girlie Sites ~ http://sogirlie.com/Links.htm

Cute Web Mag ~ http://chicatlantamagazine.com/index.html

Okay...well it's almost 3 am and I need to get some beauty sleep for work in the morning so until next time ....stay divalious becuz it's "Divalious Times"

Delays, Delays, Delays

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I had been putting the finishing touches on my divalious pad, recovering of being sick, and working...so lets begin with the fab finds of the week!

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  Visit http://www.luckyshops.com/ to get info on one of the biggest shopping events on the east coast!


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  Visit http://www.like.com/ to get exactly what you can visualize for purchase! (totally hot site)


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  'Dark Knight' sets weekend record with $155.34M


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  Visit for coupons, I personally am a huge fan of saving so you know this is one of my fav site's http://www.wow-coupons.com/index.php


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  Cute site http://www.weezies.com/

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~Diva Deals~

It’s time for Nordstrom’s anniversary sale, and everything from women’s clothes to shoes are currently marked down. Even better: they have lots of fall merchandise on sale, so this might be a great time to stock up for back-to-school.

Martin + Osa is having a summer sale, with savings of up to 60% off! I love their classy and classic clothes, and am very psyched to see the prices drop. Not sure how long this will last, so check it out soon if you’re interested!

If you want to add another bikini to your beach wardrobe, Victoria’s Secret is having a sale, with up to 60% off swimwear. There are lots of cute styles, so it’s definitely worth checking out.

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Invest in Your Success! Are you an ambitious college student or recent grad? Join ESSENCE for one empowering day of workshops and sessions that will give you the competitive edge as you launch your career. The ESSENCE Young Women's Leadership Conference will take place in Atlanta, GA on Saturday, November 1, 2008 and Washington, DC on Saturday, November 8, 2008. Registration will open on July 31, 2008. Don't miss the early bird registration discount rate of $35 (valid until September 12, 2008). Your registration fee includes a 1-year subscription (12 issues) to ESSENCE*.

Tips, Tips, Tips

If you're trying to lose weight, in can be hard to suppress the urge to check the scale often. It's better to exercise some restraint, though, because it's very normal for body weight to fluctuate a few pounds from day to day - or even within a day. For example, if you have a large meal, you could weigh as much as 5 pounds more immediately afterwards. If you eat food that's high in sodium, you're likelier to gain a few pounds of water weight in the short term. The solution: Weigh yourself no more than once a week. You'll get a more accurate picture of how well you're losing weight over time.













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SAVE THE DATE:







August 1st is National Girlfriends Day and we invite YOU to celebrate with us at Atlanta's premiere "Pink Carpet" event - Glitz & Glam!!!

The event will take place at Wertz Contemporary Gallery and the adjacent Noir Lounge in historic Castleberry Hill from 5-9pm.
Atlanta Party Starters introduced this event last year to celebrate the 25th Anniversary of Dreamgirls starring Jennifer Holliday and her historic return to the Fabulous Fox Theatre. This year's event will be full of fun and lots of surprises as well as we celebrate "girlfriends" everywhere and honor five local women who have made a significant impact in the Atlanta community in the areas of business, education, arts and entertainment, politics, and community service.

EVENT HIGHLIGHTS:
"Pink Carpet" VIP Entrance
Live Music and Celebrity Guests
Awards Presentation
Local Business Exhibitors
Informal Models (fab finds from local boutiques!)
Spa Treatments & Sexy Shoe Contest!
Complimentary 3 Vodka Cocktails & Refreshments
Door Prizes & Giveaways







WOMEN'S ASSOCIATIONS & GROUPS: Looking to get the word out on your organization or special incentives for your members? Contact us today to see how you can participate in Glitz & Glam!! For more info, mailto: events@AtlantaPartyStarters.com.







VENDOR OPPORTUNITIES: Limited opportunities exist for local women-owned businesses and female-friendly products to participate on-site as business exhibitors in our Market Row "Show & Sell" area!
Mailto: sponsorships@AtlantaPartyStarters.com.













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Exclusive Discount Tickets to Martini Night at Georgia Shakespeare




















A fabulously charming Diva falls for a reluctant lover and playful scheming ensues.
Sound familiar? No, it’s not a recap of your BFF’s most recent brush with a crush. It’s Shakespeare, Diva.
Need to brush up on your prose and verse? Just a big fan of the man himself? Either way, we have some great news: a Summer of Love and Shakespeare is in full swing at Georgia Shakespeare, and you're invited to join in the fun!
Join Social Diva for Martini Night at Georgia Shakespeare on Tuesday, July 15th at 7:00PM. One FREE martini will be given out to all of-age patrons prior to the 8:00PM performance of All's Well That Ends Well.
Plus, Social Diva subscribers save 20% on tickets for seating sections two and three. CLICK HERE to purchase your tickets online, or call the box office at 404-264-0020. Make sure that you mention you’re a Social Diva to get your exclusive 20% discount.
We can’t wait to watch and see if all really does end well.













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Okay peeps a diva is hella tired and a lil tipsy and a tiny bit sleepy so I decided to post some info to get you through for now...oh and you can alway go to http://www.gojane.com/ to spend dough, I do...when I'm bored...or draw, an outfit that you would wear if you were a modern day Cinderella at the ball with a hella cute fella!

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Last Minute

Stretching is an essential component of a successful exercise routine. Stretching will assist in increasing physical performance, decreasing risk of injury, increasing coordination and balance, reducing stress and enhancing enjoyment. To get the most benefit from a stretching routine: - Always warm-up before stretching - Stretching should be slow and controlled without any bouncing. - Hold each stretch at a point of mild tension for 10 to 30 seconds. Repeat this 3 to 5 times. - Do not excessively extend, flex, twist or lock any joints.

Sales....Oooooooooo la la

SHOPVinings Boutique Warehouse SaleWhat: Bilingual, Billy Blues, Tulle, Voom by Joy Han, and more are up to 90 percent off.Why: Shoppers, start your engines.When: Sat. & Sun., 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Info at 678-309-9550.Where: 4500 W. Village Pl., ste. 3005, Smyrna.
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An Open Letter to All Airline Customers

Our country is facing a possible sharp economic downturn because of skyrocketing oil and fuel prices, but by pulling together, we can all do something to help now.
For airlines, ultra-expensive fuel means thousands of lost jobs and severe reductions in air service to both large and small communities. To the broader economy, oil prices mean slower activity and widespread economic pain. This pain can be alleviated, and that is why we are taking the extraordinary step of writing this joint letter to our customers.Since high oil prices are partly a response to normal market forces, the nation needs to focus on increased energy supplies and conservation. However, there is another side to this story because normal market forces are being dangerously amplified by poorly regulated market speculation.Twenty years ago, 21 percent of oil contracts were purchased by speculators who trade oil on paper with no intention of ever taking delivery. Today, oil speculators purchase 66 percent of all oil futures contracts, and that reflects just the transactions that are known.Speculators buy up large amounts of oil and then sell it to each other again and again. A barrel of oil may trade 20-plus times before it is delivered and used; the price goes up with each trade and consumers pick up the final tab. Some market experts estimate that current prices reflect as much as $30 to $60 per barrel in unnecessary speculative costs.Over seventy years ago, Congress established regulations to control excessive, largely unchecked market speculation and manipulation. However, over the past two decades, these regulatory limits have been weakened or removed. We believe that restoring and enforcing these limits, along with several other modest measures, will provide more disclosure, transparency and sound market oversight. Together, these reforms will help cool the over-heated oil market and permit the economy to prosper.The nation needs to pull together to reform the oil markets and solve this growing problem.We need your help. Get more information and contact Congress by visiting www.StopOilSpeculationNow.com/sos.